Thursday, June 23, 2011

Brother Dinner

Dinner at Christie's with the brother tonight, with the major point being to reconnect, catch-up, apologize(gulp) and set some things straight.

Catch-Up
  • the mini-human (as he calls my neice, IG)
  • the new girlfriend... it would appear that he is in love
  • court (see first on list)
  • new place?
  • hear from the sister? (L made a big move recently)
  • job (he recently re-started with the fire department)
  • heard from lawyer? (we were in my grandmother's will)
Set Straight
  • I am dealing with Kurt, as is
  • We Do Not talk about the money we're getting to or in front of Kurt. 
  • Kurt thinks you don't like him.  Whether or not this is true, the fact that he thinks this tends to make things difficult.  I am sorry for this, but this is what is true, and life continues.
Apologize (&Thank You)
  • Having IG sleep over on your weekend visits may not be possible. I know this is one of the things that I know lets you down, but i cannot help that. (This may not be discussed tonight, as it is giving pain and anxiety to even think about.)
  • Kurt's recommendation letter
  • Dealing with him in general
  • Being so helpful and willing to be helpful so often and in general, but especially with moving out of mommoms

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